About the book
Enlightened relationships
This book provides the reader with easy guidelines on how to recover a life of enlightened relationships. The problem is not in the world, but in the way we deal with and look at the world. Sometimes, a small change can transform our relationships for the better. The phase of toxic and heavy relationships has passed. We must leave wars, separation and suffering behind. We are ready for a revolution in relations. We all deserve light relationships that add to our lives. This is the new way of relating, a loving and enlightened way!
-Willy
Willy makes us aware that every relationship is sacred, and we cannot be frivolous with the consequences. We can be the cause of a beautiful relationship and not the effect of harmful relationships. And in his serene but not meek way, he puts light on our road. It shows us that it doesn't take much to become a Master in relationships.
- SANDRA WOO
Excerpts from the book
The time has come to choose yourself, to choose, above all, to put your life first, not in the self-centered, self-centered sense, but in the awakened and conscious sense. In the sense that I need to look inside, take care of myself, pay attention to the inside. The human being can no longer continue to postpone his maturation, his flowering, his awakening of consciousness, because if we continue like this, failure will be inevitable.
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The moment we begin to look inward, and learn about our interior, little by little we will learn more and more how to deal with the mind, and also to have it live for our favor. As I said earlier, I will not go deeply into these matters of how the ego, the mind, the emotions work, as this is already explained in my other book "You are not who you believe you are". Look inside with affection, with calm and patience, without haste. Because it is a beautiful process to be able to really know each other. When a person says, "I know who I am," does he really know? Does she know herself in full? That is what we are trying to do here, to get to know ourselves in their entirety. We need to know ourselves more, to become intimate within. Learn to deal with emotions, thoughts, imaginations, judgments, fears, anger, jealousy and possessiveness.
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So, what would it be like to make room for the other to be free, and, to be who he is? When we give space to the other, we perceive qualities and beauties that we did not perceive before. It is like appreciating a work of art, if we look at the painting too closely, we cannot see what is actually painted there, but when we take a step back, we look at the painting as a whole, and understand and appreciate all the qualities of the painting. constructions. In the same way it works with our relationships, when we give space, not physical, but mentally, we can see who is around us with another look. We ended up discovering and recognizing in the other things that we had never seen before. We can even perceive a genuine love arising and springing up more and more for each other, as we give space to the other to be who he is.